To Reveal Or Not Reveal???

I have some interesting information on someone that has been a thorn in my side for the past three years. This person called herself (and yes, I know exactly who it is), exposing my past. Only thing, it was already out there and she added her own little spin onto things. She only did this to help bolster her brother's side of a domestic issue, but what has it done? Absolutely nothing. However, someone who was on the outside looking in on the situation did some digging up on her and found some very interesting things from her past. So, I'm struggling with the decision on rather or not I should publically release this information like this person did to me. Do I become as low-down, dirty, pyscho and downright trifling as her? Do I stoop to that level, even though I've held my head up high and remained on the high road? Do I just throw all of that away and seek revenge? Do I expose her for what she is? What would you do in this situation?

If you were in my personal situation and someone was committing ONLINE HARASSMENT/CYBER-STALKING (yes, it qualifies for that, i have checked with the legal system) against you in order to help one of their family members out in a legal case, and someone passed information onto you that could just smash her brother's side of the case? I mean, if you got ahold to some information like this and presented it to the judge, the judge would take a entirely new outlook on the case? What would you do if you were in my shoes? Would you take all precautions necessary to protect a child? What would you do if you knew this other female was looking for false information and possibly fabricating false information about you? What would you do?

This is the situation that I am in right now, I got some information and had it VERIFIED by a neutral third party....and now I'm like "Do I put it out there, or do I let the other side know I got this information and request an amicable change in our situation?". I don't know what to do. I do know that if this information was released, that it would in fact have this person (the female) fired or suspended from her job and it could mess up her own family dynamics.

The person who provided me with this information, has offered to post it on my behalf. And I'm seriously considering that. I will rest on this situation overnight, and when I make my first post in the morning, I will post my decision, as well as, provide a contact email so that you may be able to view the posted information.

Well, I am about to hang it up for the night.

Talk to you later

Teandrea Watson